We’re officially one week into this new season of life: parenting two tiny humans! Our son made his grand entrance last week, and let me tell you—it’s been a whirlwind. Our toddler is absolutely smitten with her baby brother (she’s thrilled he’s no longer just a mysterious belly-dweller), and our dog has taken on the role of official greeter, dishing out boops, kisses, and protective vibes like it’s his full-time job.
We’re navigating new routines, adjusting to new roles, and handling unexpected curveballs with all the grace of a caffeinated squirrel. It’s fast, it’s furious, full of twists and turns, and somehow- it’s also full of beauty.
Reflecting back on when we welcomed our daughter three years ago, I remember feeling completely overwhelmed. I wrestled with postpartum depression for almost a year and carried around a heavy sense of anxiety and unworthiness. No amount of prep—mental, physical, or emotional—could’ve braced me for that chapter.
But this time, I came in with a new mindset, and it’s made all the difference.
I made a conscious effort to be more flexible with myself. That meant adjusting expectations: sleep when I can, clean when I can (eventually), and ask for help when the overwhelm sets in. I’m learning to set boundaries, communicate clearly, and actually lean on my support system—not just say I will.
The biggest shift? Presence. I remind myself that these days, these ages, these little moments—are fleeting. My kids will never be this little again, and I don’t want to miss it chasing perfection or productivity.
Mindset has been a game-changer. Of course, I still have zombie days where I’m sleep-deprived and half-disassociated from reality. But just when I think I’m about to spiral, my daughter gives me a hug or my son flashes a sleepy smile, and I feel this overwhelming, soul-deep joy I didn’t know I could access.
To all the parents out there raising little humans—I see you. Be kind to yourself. Give yourself the grace you’d offer your best friend. You’re doing better than you think.
Cheers to the chaos, the cuddles, and the coffee!